Ok. I've been reading the threads and posts that 2way referred me to carefully over and over again. The only thing that holds me back from trying it that way is that I don't think we are talking about the same "symptoms" here.
The scenarios that are described in those posts have different "symptoms," the seem to say that my console lights don't dim.
Everything on my car now works (I fixed that fuse problem of the clock, etc.).
The only thing that doesn't work is that white w/ green wire from the stock stereo plug that tapped into. When I say everything works, I mean (all my exterior lights, interior lights (all my console, lights, my dimming light DOES dim every light (a/c and fan too)). the only thing that doesn't is this wire that used to dim my head unit (my head unit is an alpine that has an automatic dim option and a manual dim option). I can still manually dim it, but the automatic option doesn't work anymore due to that wire. That white w/ green wire was working perfectly with my head unit until I tried to tap into the same spot that my head unit was using. (yes, I disconnected the negative from the battery). I know I blew something, but from the "symptoms" that were described so far, it doesn't seem like I have the same problem...
It seems like many of you are very familiar with our wiring system and are very experienced in this stuff, I appreciate all your input.
Again the wire that I was trying to hook up to that connection of my head unit and the white w/ green, was the WHITE wire mention on page 8 of this manual (it doesn't specify 12v, it just has a (+) sign where as it does specify it for the red wire of my gauge)
Thanks guys