Leave the strut bolts, undo the bolt for lower ball joint, remove outer tie rod end nut, tap the axle in a little while pulling the spindle up. It should fall out, use some pb blast or wd40 if you have some.
All you needed was a $30 breaker bar with the socket you got. Just pull on the breaker bar while someone steps on the brake pedal. But I'm glad you got it off. Spray PB blast on anything that doesn't want to move. It's about $3.00 at any pepboys, autozone etc. It's a s*it load better the WD40. done go for cheapy axles cause they vibrate. Rebuilt ones are the best cause same warranty, I get it for $49.95 through my garage and it's individually hand built! Need help I'll try to help. if you were in Jersey I would have done it for you.Oh yea $400 later and 10s of work I got the axle nuts off real quick.