I think it's fixed. Did more internet research last night and learned that a flashing ABS light means that the ABS system isn't working, but the brakes still work. So, I decided to go ahead and switch the wire connectors, removing the blue and connecting the black to the VSV(EVAP) solenoid. Cranked the car, and there were no warning lights! Drove around the block and still no warning lights. So, maybe this is resolved. Won't know for sure though until the next refueling.
Update, 1/7/14: It's fixed. No problem during refueling now. Done deal!
Update, 1/7/14: It's fixed. No problem during refueling now. Done deal!